Since cremation is traditionally uncommon,
the burial of the dead is a matter taken very seriously in Chinese society.
Improper funeral arrangements can wreak ill fortune and disaster on the family
of the deceased.
Chinese funeral rites and burial customs
are determined by the age of the deceased cause of death, status and position
in society, and marital status. All who die will automatically enter the
underworld of Diyu to be judged before either being sent to heaven, to be
punished in the underworld, or to be reincarnated. The word ‘hell’ is not to be
compared with the western understanding of the word, but rather as ‘Chinese
afterlife in general’, a more neutral platform.
Paper objects, such as clothing, jewellery,
mobile phones, accessories, cars, lavish models of paper villas with manicured
gardens, home interiors, medicine, fancy foods and liquors, cosmetics and
others, should be extravagant, luxurious and will most likely be showing a high
end brand name of an earthly company; simply speaking: the more expensive- the
better. The ancestors will be given all the luxuries that were eluded in life. You
can buy banknotes showing the name ‘Bank of Universal’, ‘Bank of Heaven’ or
even ‘Bank of Paradise’. Ancestor worship is a religious practice
based on the belief that deceased family members have a continued existence,
take an interest in the affairs of the world, and possess the ability to
influence the fortune of the living.
Preparation for a funeral often begins
before a death has occurred. When a person is on his/her deathbed, a coffin
will often have already been ordered by the family. A traditional Chinese
coffin is rectangular with three 'humps', although it more common in modern
times for a western style coffin to be used. The coffin is provided by an
undertaker who oversees all funeral rites.
During the wake, the family does not wear
jewelry or red clothing (red is the color of happiness). Traditionally,
children and grandchildren of the deceased did not cut their hair for 49 days
after the death, but this custom is now usually only observed by older
generations. It is customary for blood relatives and daughters-in-law to wail
and cry during mourning as a sign of respect and loyalty to the deceased. The
cries are particularly loud if the deceased has left a large fortune.
During the wake there is usually a group of
people gambling in the front courtyard of the deceased's house because the
corpse must be "guarded," and gambling helps the guards stay awake
during their vigil. This custom also helps to lessen the grief of the participants.
The Chinese believe that seven days after
the death of a family member the soul of the departed will return to his/her
home. A red plaque with a suitable inscription may be placed outside the house
at this time to ensure that the soul does not get lost. On the day of the return of the soul,
family members are expected to remain in their rooms. Flour or talcum powder
may be dusted on the floor of the entrance hall of the home to detect the visit.
Paper horse and cart
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